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Dude doesn't want his life, so why would you?

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Ian Usher isn't the first guy to do it. When it comes to the grand gesture of attempting to auction your life on eBay, he's even too late to make the second wave of emotional e-commerce pioneers. Still, he certainly is raking in the notoriety.

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(Apparently, anonymous Netizens will prank the pitiful! When did this start?)

Probably about the time Usenet started.

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Reply#1 - Thu Jun 26, 2008 9:29 AM EDT
{"commentId":2062523,"authorDomain":"latresa-butts"}

I think it is a great idea! I'd sure like to sell my "life" away about now!

A person could have my 8 rent houses, my personal home, my car and all my personal belongings for a starting bid of $200K.

The, I'd change my last name and get an entirely new "life".

Thanks, and let's start the bidding!
Tres

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    Reply#2 - Thu Jun 26, 2008 11:40 PM EDT
    {"commentId":2063493,"authorDomain":"wendysline"}

    Yup. Sounds like a good idea to me. We could also start a website where we could trade lives. I don't want mine....I'll take yours! Unhappy people could always switch back. I think I'd have to start bidding around 250K if I were to sell my life. I'm not so sure I could walk away from my pets. At times I think I could walk away from my hubby. That's bad.

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      Reply#3 - Fri Jun 27, 2008 3:56 AM EDT
      {"commentId":2089945,"authorDomain":"rquick"}

      We would be reduced to trading pictures at that point ...no?

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        #3.1 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 8:03 PM EDT
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        {"commentId":2078325,"authorDomain":"Lefthandedgamer"}

        A few ideas:

        1. Regarding Novelty. In 2001, the amount of people exploring internet culture was not as large. I think internet access and amount people exploring make this a more novel experience for the masses. Especially since old media is reporting alittle more the new media stuff.

        2. Griefers. They exist. It sucks. If one is interested in this man's story great if not why grief the guy. He is sad that his relationship of 12 years ended. Don't add to the grief?

        3. I think you should add a D) to the multiple choice. I think his idea has merit and is interesting.

        4. The notion that he does want his life, why should I? Because the guy has some cool stuff. I saw the video of the house and it looks nice. The car not so much. The motorcycle and jet ski are interesting. In the end, I agree that this is a real estate sale with a sales pitch that is fluff.

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          Reply#4 - Sun Jun 29, 2008 10:02 AM EDT
          {"commentId":2088571,"authorDomain":"historyfreak168"}

          It's sad that someone would ask for money too trade his/her life away. I hope that this doesn't become a trend!

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            Reply#5 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 5:00 PM EDT
            {"commentId":2088700,"authorDomain":"larry-13"}

            I am the Wedding Dress Guy who was spoken of in the article. I say more power to him. If he can get someone to actually PAY for his life, than it's well worth it. And the link to my auction back in '04 is better read on weddingdressguy.com as it preserved as it was when it closed. Just click on "ORIGINAL EBAY AD" on the upper left menu.

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              Reply#6 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 5:14 PM EDT
              {"commentId":2089349,"authorDomain":"amyj87"}

              I read the wedding dress stuff...you are frickin brilliant. I love how you handled everything, no wonder women were proposing.

              I had to flee my home leaving behind my wedding dress with my lying, cheating ex-husband. Perhaps his girlfriend will be able to use it since she obviously doesn't have a problem with taking things that aren't hers. I'm not bitter because she has him & I don't - she's welcome to him - I just got screwed in the deal.

              You, my friend, handled things beautifully. You can be my inspiration.

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                #6.1 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 6:32 PM EDT
                {"commentId":2091558,"authorDomain":"larry-13"}

                Thank you very much for the kudos. But, as you realize, you are much better off without someone yanking your heartstrings. Look out for number 1, baby, cuz you dumped a big number 2.

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                  #6.2 - Tue Jul 1, 2008 12:54 AM EDT
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                  {"commentId":2088786,"authorDomain":"deannanel777"}

                  I am so sad to see that many are so unhappy. :(
                  You are living this one life for yourselves, that's
                  the problem. Live it as unto the Lord seek Him always...He will give you the Joy that you are lacking.
                  The Bible makes many promises, seek and you shall
                  find..Ask and it shall be given...Start a new life with Jesus
                  as most important, He will bless you, in many ways, but
                  one will be aJoy that you've never experienced, before !

                  God Bless, read the Good news of Jesus John 3:16
                  De

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                    Reply#7 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 5:25 PM EDT
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                    {"commentId":2089003,"authorDomain":"harleyrdr"}

                    I happen to like my life just the way it is. I simply adore my husband and my kids. I even like my job about 60% of the time. I wouldn't trade it with anyone.

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                      Reply#8 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 5:49 PM EDT
                      {"commentId":2089279,"authorDomain":"renera"}

                      Just at least spell existence corectly...thanks

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                        Reply#9 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 6:24 PM EDT
                        {"commentId":2089292,"authorDomain":"renera"}

                        Just at least spell existence correctly...thanks

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                          Reply#10 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 6:25 PM EDT
                          {"commentId":2089393,"authorDomain":"crazycatwoman"}

                          I wouldn't be interested in selling my life. But, I sure wouldn't mind a sales job. I have some 20 years experience. I have been unemployed since December 6, 2006. Been looking but so far I haven't found anything. I am not the type to resort to cleaning motels rooms or pumping gas. That would mean for me that I have really have hit rock bottom low. But, who knows if things get much worse and I can't make my mortage payments or car payment, maybe I will have to auction off my life. Sorry folks no job though. Unemployed in Southern Oregon!

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                            Reply#11 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 6:40 PM EDT
                            {"commentId":2091001,"authorDomain":"dkendrafran"}

                            Terri-358686: How dare you! You won't "resort" to cleaning motels or pumping gas? Since when has honest work been demeaning? Since when has it been "rock bottom"? If it pays even part of the mortgage or car payment, if you can meet even part of your bills then you're ahead of the game! Sell the house and get an apartment; take in a roommate; sell the car and use a bicycle. You live in Oregon? So do I. You've been in sales? So have I. Take a job, any job, just to get money coming in again!

                            "One is never over-qualified if you want to work. I want to work." Yes, I put that on a cover letter. I suggest you use it!

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                              #11.1 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 11:06 PM EDT
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                              {"commentId":2089602,"authorDomain":"albertsellers"}

                              Ian, My hat is off to you, it's one thing to have a bad break up with someone, but to try an determine the worth of ones life by auction on eBay??? sorry bro, that's not going to work, any way, any time, and for any reason. We've all been made to feel like a chump at one time by a bad relationship. The only way that I know to bounce back is to grieve it like the death of some one that you have once known, loved, and lost. After you have walked though that and accepted it for what it is then can you be free to start over with a clear mind and heart. I firmly believe that the only place that we can tell your true wroth is in our own heart and mind. Looking at both as a whole, and being the best we can be will we feel the rich that we are entitled to. Living joy's, happy, and free. Albert sellers

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                                Reply#12 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 7:13 PM EDT
                                {"commentId":2089789,"authorDomain":"madlady"}

                                Yeah, the way life has been and going, I would my life and all my things, for a fresh start. I understand where the man is coming from, when you have sacrificed your time, money, feelings, and possessions to obtain a fictitious marriage in the end. Especially, if you have been faithful through all of the drama, hardships and infidelity. Hell, I would even starting the bidding at 100k with room to negotiate, the children included. So by now one might reach the conclusion that I am a single mom with children. Sad part about it, because we had the bills in both of our name, the @!$%# is a jailbird, and if I wanted to really start over, I would have to pay his part of the bills in order for me to have something worthwhile again. So the 100k would probably end up being in the end for me to start a fresh, round about 75k. But realistically, I would have to get a refund and get my children, because most of the time, I would feel guilty for leaving them or selling them. And really they are not a part of the problem, but I sure would as hell go on a 3 month vacation first. Just my thoughts. Not that anyone cares to listen.

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                                  Reply#13 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 7:39 PM EDT
                                  {"commentId":2089920,"authorDomain":"salahzos"}

                                  What is wrong with Western civilization. Are we so unable to deal with life's hardships? So what if you had a bad relation? It's part of life, nothing special. This guy is a loser un-willing to face the consequences of his choices.

                                  You want a new start? Start by dealing with your own problems, way of life, thinking process, choices you made, reflect back and see what you did.

                                  The majority have it much worse. Hunger, homeless, dying from cancer or some other illness, wars, etc.

                                  So shallow our lives it's sickening. Wanna blame someone? Look at the mirror and you can see that person.

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                                    Reply#14 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 7:59 PM EDT
                                    {"commentId":2090014,"authorDomain":"madlady"}

                                    Hand claps to you, you really feel good, obviously we are in a different part of the world where we have a just a little more than you and we all have our problems, like freedom of speech here, we can post and do as we feel as long as we are not breaking any rules. Him wanting a fresh start is not a bad idea. I am quite sure he has done all those things you said before, you feel mighty and holy now. So your comments are your comments and they do not hold water. Good luck to you in your adventures in life, and make sure the bug that bit him does not come after you, if it has not already have. I bet your the kinda person that likes to tell people what to do and don't do them yourself.

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                                      #14.1 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 8:14 PM EDT
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                                      {"commentId":2089981,"authorDomain":"macraepl2"}

                                      People do what they need to do-accepting life on life's terms can be a @!$%# (these symbols were not MY idea, but I'm sure you know what I was trying to say . . .)

                                      The weddingdressguy auction was a hoot. Laughter is great medicine. It takes a certain attitude to do things like that.

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                                        Reply#15 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 8:10 PM EDT
                                        {"commentId":2090034,"authorDomain":"monsterkatz3"}

                                        Give me a tissue! I'd love to trade! Bored to tears here!

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                                          Reply#16 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 8:19 PM EDT
                                          {"commentId":2090826,"authorDomain":"dmburck195910"}

                                          I think it's absolutely ridiculous! Obviously, the man has emotional problems here. I've heard of trying to sell body parts on Ebay, such as kidneys and things like that, but this is a first! Come on, Ebay! You're getting as irresponsible as YouTube. Where is the discretion here?!

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                                            Reply#17 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 10:35 PM EDT
                                            {"commentId":2090918,"authorDomain":"katdelwoo"}

                                            First of all you should never place a monetary value on your life and why would he think that a stranger would value the people he chose to include in his life when evidently he didn't care much about them to just up and leave. He not only sold his life he also sold his friends.

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                                              Reply#18 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 10:51 PM EDT
                                              {"commentId":2091104,"authorDomain":"angel-in-the-lightning"}

                                              I think that people who try and 'sell' there lifes are losers.

                                              You can't just run away, i mean, sell your life!

                                              and how would he start a new one anyway?

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                                                Reply#19 - Mon Jun 30, 2008 11:25 PM EDT
                                                {"commentId":2091655,"authorDomain":"bevharris"}

                                                God had a purpose in creating everyone, so you don't have to want to trade away your life. Just find out why God created you, and go for it. You will be sooooo happy when you do. First step is to ask Jesus to come into your life. He makes everything new! It is awesome! I promise!

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                                                  Reply#20 - Tue Jul 1, 2008 1:20 AM EDT
                                                  {"commentId":2091667,"authorDomain":"twentyfourpaws"}

                                                  What did this moron think he'd get?? 1st, we all have problems -- some are greater and more complex than others -- but 99.9% of us can't just toss it all and decide to run from them to "make a fresh start"; 2nd, in his infinite wisdom, he decided to sell it all on the "are you smarter than a 5th grader?" of e-sales sites, e-Bay: what did he think he'd get? And the jerkweeds who actually bid are as clueless as he is. Lots of luck, Sparky -- your chances of "making it" the 2nd time around are less than the first.

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                                                    Reply#21 - Tue Jul 1, 2008 1:23 AM EDT
                                                    {"commentId":2091795,"authorDomain":"pixie-pirate27"}

                                                    1. Do you mean to say that 99.9% of us can't, or won't because we're too scared?

                                                    2. Oh, is he a moron? Do you know him personally? You must know him really well to be able to say such a thing. So have you met the winner yet? You are one of the friends that was sold, right?

                                                    3. "Jerkweeds"? Maybe I'm wrong, but it looked to me like the jerkweed who won got a smokin' hot deal. Maybe it was unwise of the seller to use eBay, though.

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                                                      #21.1 - Tue Jul 1, 2008 1:56 AM EDT
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                                                      {"commentId":2091761,"authorDomain":"pixie-pirate27"}

                                                      Yes, what is wrong with Western civilization? It looks as if we're awfully spoiled here, doesn't it-- I mean, we come here to post negative comments about other people because they did something we would never do! Why give up your house, car and job? How can you live without your material possessions? And just what would you do with that small chunk of change you got for it all anyway, huh? Would you travel the world, or donate some to charity? How overrated! Man, what a LOSER.

                                                      He didn't lose, he won. Can you imagine having a fair amount of money and nothing to tie you down? You could go anywhere, do anything... As cliche as it may sound, the possibilities would be endless. It is kind of disappointing to hear he was upset about the selling price--who really needs that much money for just one person?--but a little money is better than a sharp stick in the eye. I know that if my "life" was worth anything, I would sell it too. I wouldn't give up my friends though, they're too good to me. Besides that, it's a really creative idea. The fact that he sold it on eBay just makes me smile. You really can sell anything there, can't you? =)

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                                                        Reply#22 - Tue Jul 1, 2008 1:46 AM EDT
                                                        {"commentId":2138527,"authorDomain":"savingideas"}

                                                        I'm right there with this guy...but I'd get hardly a dime

                                                        my would give the next guy something to whine about, people would probably charge me to take my place

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                                                          #22.1 - Mon Jul 7, 2008 11:51 PM EDT
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                                                          {"commentId":2091976,"authorDomain":"sybzer"}

                                                          Lame. I wonder why he got divorced? Maybe he tried to auction his wife first. Also, did he really auction his life, so to speak, or did he really just do what almost all guys his age do, have a midlife crisis?
                                                          I can't wait to have mine, but until then, I won't be auctioning anything. However, I'll be selling my art for a fixed price. myspace.com / fruitonthewall

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                                                            Reply#23 - Tue Jul 1, 2008 3:06 AM EDT
                                                            {"commentId":2102522,"authorDomain":"cooltruth"}

                                                            What did he think he would get by auctioning it off in a 'lump deal' like that? I'd think he could have got more money by auctioning things individually or having an auctioneer come auction the property IRL. A bidder may have some problem determining the value of a large lot of items on eBay. Face it, who'd want to bid much money on a 'life' (including his friends) being offered in it's entirety on eBay? What do his friends think about this little deal?

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                                                              Reply#24 - Wed Jul 2, 2008 9:32 AM EDT
                                                              {"commentId":2138514,"authorDomain":"savingideas"}

                                                              "take my life and shove it" to the tune of "take this job and shove it"

                                                              cause it ain't what they said it would be

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                                                                #24.1 - Mon Jul 7, 2008 11:50 PM EDT
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                                                                {"commentId":2124026,"authorDomain":"stock-charter"}

                                                                I can't say I want to auction my "life" away, but I'd sure love to sell 44 years off my age.

                                                                Oh to be 22 and single again! I might even meet and marry the same woman again. (I'm still with the 'first and only' wife in my life.) Still, I'd love to have a chance to try it over again and make some difference decisions that would lead to a different lifestyle.

                                                                Maybe some of you readers would like to be 66 years old now. Medicare isn't bankrupt yet and Social Security puts a monthly check in the bank account. Do I hear any bidders??

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                                                                  Reply#25 - Sat Jul 5, 2008 4:38 PM EDT
                                                                  {"commentId":2137560,"authorDomain":"ProgrammerDude"}

                                                                  Look at it this way: You're 22 ... with 44 years experience!

                                                                  You should be pretty good at it by now! :-)

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                                                                    #25.1 - Mon Jul 7, 2008 9:42 PM EDT
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